All this talk about loving my job, being empathetic to costumers and giving them affection, all that fluffy stuff, some cynics could say- but you still charge a lot for this service, therefore it must not be real. I guess the issue with money is a confusing one, and one of the reasons why a […]
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Thoughts about atmosphere
I am thinking a lot about what does it take to create a good session atmosphere, where somebody can easily relax and get into play. Of course, if I play in the Studio, there are candles, dimm lights, Soft sheets, music of my choosing. But sometimes I get called to a hotel, walking in with […]
Morality- a metaphor from a parallel universe
Imagine a person who cannot cook for themselves. Maybe they had a traumatic injury at a young age from the stove and they are afraid of the heat, or they just feel completely incompetent, knowing to cook only one dish. The nutrients from this dish are not diverse enough and they feel dissatisfied and physically […]
Being seen
The more I do this job, the more I realise what is it that my costumers really want, underneath all the kinks and fetishes. They want to feel seen and loved through and with all of their imperfection. They want to be needed for their sexuality, even ‘used’ because of it. Its a form of […]
The magic of feet
For the first couple of years at this job, the fetish I understood the least was feet. I thought it was about crawling on the floor, being a door mat, being the lowest slave that must lick dirt for the rest of his life. But with time I realise that some people just have an […]
