For those curious about how a session more or less develops, here is a description of my most common customer, and what I would usually do with them. A big percentage of my new costumers are newbies or not very experienced, so I’m extra slow and attentive to their body language. Just to give you […]
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The thing about money
All this talk about loving my job, being empathetic to costumers and giving them affection, all that fluffy stuff, some cynics could say- but you still charge a lot for this service, therefore it must not be real. I guess the issue with money is a confusing one, and one of the reasons why a […]
Thoughts about atmosphere
I am thinking a lot about what does it take to create a good session atmosphere, where somebody can easily relax and get into play. Of course, if I play in the Studio, there are candles, dimm lights, Soft sheets, music of my choosing. But sometimes I get called to a hotel, walking in with […]
Morality- a metaphor from a parallel universe
Imagine a person who cannot cook for themselves. Maybe they had a traumatic injury at a young age from the stove and they are afraid of the heat, or they just feel completely incompetent, knowing to cook only one dish. The nutrients from this dish are not diverse enough and they feel dissatisfied and physically […]
Being seen
The more I do this job, the more I realise what is it that my costumers really want, underneath all the kinks and fetishes. They want to feel seen and loved through and with all of their imperfection. They want to be needed for their sexuality, even ‘used’ because of it. Its a form of […]
