The more I do this job, the more I realise what is it that my costumers really want, underneath all the kinks and fetishes. They want to feel seen and loved through and with all of their imperfection. They want to be needed for their sexuality, even ‘used’ because of it. Its a form of […]
Recent Posts
The magic of feet
For the first couple of years at this job, the fetish I understood the least was feet. I thought it was about crawling on the floor, being a door mat, being the lowest slave that must lick dirt for the rest of his life. But with time I realise that some people just have an […]
Awaken your inner dominant
This is a time of shifting. From masculine energy dominating the world, into a feminine energy, hopefully followed by a good balance of both. It seems that my creative work as well as my dominatrix work naturally have these themes bubbling inside them, wether working with shape and colour, or power dynamics between man and […]
Playful Innocence
I find the men that come to my studio and their relationship with their sexuality absolutely adorable. They have an air of slight shame about them, as they get naked to go to the shower, before our session. Its this cloud above their heads, knowing that what they are about to do is completely emberassing […]
Mistress of three machines (dirty story)
He was completely covered in black latex. Only his intimate parts were visible, exposed between his strapped up, spread apart legs, as he was restrained in the Red Salon at Studio Lux. The modern bondage device to which he was bound is a brilliant tool, made up from simple adjustable elements that render a man […]
